05 Dec 2023 
The 2023 holiday season is already upon us!
As an Occupational Therapist (OT) working in both clinical and community settings, a big part of my job is meeting with parents to help them learn how to play with their children in a way that furthers their development by building foundational learning and motor skills. Parents often ask me for recommendations on activities to try at home, and it would be an understatement to say I get excited when talking about toys and games. Toys provide a fun, hands-on way to teach children new skills and build confidence when they aren’t meeting milestones the way they should. This year, many families are looking for holiday gifts that are both fun and enriching. But with everything available online and so many options to choose from, how do you even know what therapeutic toys to buy?
This holiday gift guide was created to help parents navigate the often-overwhelming world of children’s toys and find enriching games their children will love – on any budget. In no particular order, here are some of my favorite toys available this holiday season.
These recommendations are not intended to endorse a specific product. Toy recommendations are intended only to inspire parents to get creative with holiday toy purchases- please use caution and only buy toys that are both safe and appropriate for *your* child. Also, this blog contains affiliate links. TES will receive a percentage of the cost.
Gifts Under $20
Scented Kinetic Sand $20
love using kinetic sand during my sessions as both a reward for doing challenging work and as a sensory activity that kids always enjoy. This sand includes a bonus….it’s scented in yummy chocolate, vanilla, cherry, and apple “flavors”! There are so many ways to customize this activity to meet different children’s preferences: You can keep them stored in separate containers and use them one at a time, add them to regular kinetic sand to decrease the intensity of the smells, or let your kids mix them together to create fun new scent combinations. There are tons of different smells to choose from- search scented kinetic sand and you’ll find a variety of scent options. Buy it here
Sand Painting Activity Kit $18
I’m always looking for fun crafts to do with my school-aged kids, they provide a purposeful activity that often motivates kids to try new things. With this sand painting kit, you have two activities in one. Fun watercolors, and 3D sand art. This is great for hand strengthening, working on pencil grasp, visual motor skills, tactile sensitivities, and the list goes on and on. Buy it here
Melissa & Doug Wooden Mancala Board $17
Ages 6-12
Melissa & Doug is an award-winning, made-by-hand toy company known for affordable, high-quality toys and games that support learning and development. Perhaps most known for their sturdy wood puzzles and pretend play accessories, Melissa & Doug items often include fun, thoughtful details that stand out from other commercial toy products. This Mancala board is not only a classic, easy-to-learn game, it includes hanging hardware so that its beautiful design can be used as décor for playrooms or children’s bedrooms. The vivid colors of the game (blue, green, red, orange) increases visual contrast, making it more accessible for children with differing abilities (many kids with special needs/learning disabilities have visual perceptual difficulties), yet are cohesive enough not to overwhelm those with visual sensitivities. Works on fine motor skills, turn-taking, and problem-solving. OT’s love toys with small pieces, because they encourage 2-3 finger grasps, which are essential for writing and dressing skills. Buy it here
Color your own water bottle $14
Having a water bottle is essential! This one is great because it allows kids to decorate, so they have a bottle that is uniquely their own. It’s BPA-free, has preprinted designs, and comes with permanent markers and stick-on gems. As if that wasn’t enough, it includes a free pencil pouch that can also be decorated! Kids will be having too much fun to realize they are working on fine motor skills. Purple Ladybug makes other bottles in many different colors, including ones with stickers only (dinosaurs, robots, pink/blue/green/red): an excellent option for kids who may not enjoy coloring. Buy it here
Melissa & Doug Catch and Count Magnetic Fishing Game $16
As I mentioned before, Melissa & Doug toys are known for quality. In the age of tablets and screen time, their toys create opportunities for hands-on play, which is the cornerstone of children’s learning. This fishing set comes with 2 fishing rods, 2 sets of magnetic fish, and a game spinner. When not in use, the game can easily be put away in the included blue mesh storage bag (which doubles as a “pond” or “fishing net” when being played). Let me just say, that there is so much here to love from an OT perspective! Numbers for counting/number recognition, the string builds up hand-eye-coordination, and a working reel that encourages the use of two hands (and builds the ever-so-important bilateral coordination skills!). Buy it here
Lite Brite $9.00
Ages 4+
Remember LiteBrite? Why not be the person who introduces your kid to an incredible “new” game? From an OT perspective, this game is absolute gold. It has a vertical surface (which any child with fine motor delays should be using as much as possible), and small manipulatives, something I recommend for children who hold pencils improperly. This kit also includes designs kids can follow, building visual motor skills, praxis, and executive functioning skills. Like I said, OT gold! There are many different kinds with different patterns and features, so you’ll find something appealing no matter what your child’s interests are. Buy it here
Melissa & Doug Louis Lobster Claw Catcher $11
36 mo. – 8 years, great for siblings of different ages.
This Lobster claw catcher is another excellent way to work on hand-eye coordination skills while also strengthening little hands. It’s designed for pools so it’s waterproof- perfect for bath time, adding to a water sensory bin, or can be used on the floor for less of a challenge. Buy it here
Crayola my first doodle board $19
Although I *highly* recommend doing as many messy, slimy, craft projects as possible with your child, I also recognize there are times when messy paint is not a good idea. Enter, the double doodler! I’m pretty sure this was designed by an OT because it is basically a fine motor skill factory. One side is a touch-activated rainbow drawer, which works on finger isolation, hand strength, and early stages of writing. The other is a wipeable crayon drawing surface that is like a dry-erase board but for crayons. The best part though, is the triangular crayons that encourage a tripod grasp! Buy it here
Melissa & Doug Dot to Dot Coloring Pad $5
36 mo.-10 years
Builds visual motor skills needed for reading and writing, 20 alphabet pages (connect letters of the alphabet in order) and 20 number pages (connect numbers 1-50 in order) that start easy and get more challenging. Great for working on numbers and letters, hand-eye coordination, and coloring skills. Your kids will love uncovering the mystery pictures and adding customized finishing touches (coloring). Buy it Buy it here
Melissa & Doug “Suspend” Family Game $16
8-15 years, up to 4 players
Family-friendly game. Works on fine motor skills, hand-eye coordination, and motor planning. Like Jenga, but maybe a little more fun? Buy it here
Pop Beads from B. Toys $20 (300 or 500 pcs)
Although there are lots of different brands available on the market, these are my favorite. They have fun colors and designs, versatile accessories, and are really well made. I’ve had the same batch for years and use them frequently with my clients to build hand strength, bilateral coordination, and build grasping skills that are needed to hold a pencil. Although they are marketed as a jewelry craft, I use them with all my clients to build not only jewelry but also “robots,” “snakes,” and whatever else kids dream up in their imaginations. For kids who already struggle with fine motor tasks, I recommend starting with the big beads (the least challenging) already connected and making a game of pulling them apart to build up strength before asking them to connect the beads themselves. Buy it here
Gifts between $20-$50
TOMY Mr. Mouth, Feed the Frog Game $24
This awesome game might be a little tricky for some little ones, but it’s packed with fun. Mini catapults fling little ‘bugs’ into the frog’s mouth as it slowly spins and opens/closes its mouth. TOMY games are known for their fun, interactive board games that build problem-solving skills, and this one is no different. Works on fine motor skills, timing, social skills, and hand-eye coordination. Just don’t forget to buy batteries! Buy it here
Coogam Wooden Geoboard $22
Ages 3+
I use this geoboard with grade-schoolers who are struggling with handwriting (and usually math, drawing, scissor skills, reading). Visual-motor integration is the foundation of so many school-related skills, and difficulties in this area can really interfere with a child’s learning. This Geoboard comes with pattern cards ranging from simple to challenging, as well as blank dry erase cards, so children can enjoy for hours no matter what their skill level. Buy it here
Activ Life battery-operated LED bike wheel lights $25
These awesome bike lights add an extra incentive to go outside and move! They attach to the bike’s wheels and require no tools to install. There are tons of great colors to choose from, and they also increase visibility. Buy it here
3Doodler pen set for 3D drawing $50
Ages 6+
Why draw on paper when you can create 3D creations with this awesome pen…No weird glasses are required! Kids can create funny monsters, animals, or whatever else they can dream up while improving fine motor and visual motor skills. Buy it here
Bedsure Weighted Blanket $43
While not technically a toy, I had to add this weighted blanket to my must-buy list. OTs have known about the calming effects of weighted objects for a long time, but they were always expensive and hard to find. Fortunately, this is no longer the case, they are popping up everywhere and can be super affordable. This blanket is made with glass beads (great for keeping you cool), and sewn into individual squares that create a more even weight distribution. It also features a removable, washable cover which makes keeping it clean so much easier (just trust me, you don’t want a heavy object thumping around your washing machine). Just ensure you select the weight carefully: No more than 10% of the child’s weight + 1 lb. *and never put a weighted object on children under 2, or any child that would be unable to get out from under it by themselves!! Buy it here
Gifts $60+
Osmo Creative Drawing Pad $70
If your child will not part with their tablet (but please, still consider it), this interactive drawing pad is a great way to sneak in early writing skills into their usual screen time. It has all the supplies needed to turn your iPad into an interactive drawing game: stand, camera reflector, drawing pad, and stylus. Buy it here
BurgkidzBuilding Wall $90
OT’s love vertical surfaces. It forces children to lift their wrists, which is the first step to a better pencil grasp. This vertical wall allows kids to use their building bricks to make fun creations while working on fine motor skills. It would also make a pretty awesome decoration for a bedroom or playroom! Buy it here
POTBY Kids Desk $125
Kids are doing most of their learning in front of a laptop. You’ve probably already begun using strategies to help alleviate the eye strain, now it’s time to start thinking about sitting posture. The ideal body position puts the ankles, knees, and hips at 90 degrees. This study station has so many benefits for your child’s learning. The desk and chair are both completely adjustable so you can get the height exactly right, there’s a built-in desk light to prevent eye strain, and a writing surface that raises (improves hand position and grasp). Comes in many colors. Buy it here
For more information on utilizing toys to build gross and fine motor skills, physical therapy toys, or to schedule a consultation with our pediatric occupational therapist (OT) experts, please contact us at 888-4TES-KIDS or visit our website at www.TESIDEA.com!
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